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PolyamoryMarriage equality for its citizens has become a hot issue in America these days. Many people agree that marriage does not necessarily have to be between a man and a woman, but between people deeply in love, regardless of their romantic preferences. However, should it still only be between two people? Although it is not as publicly recognized as homosexuality, polyamory is becoming more and more common in today's world. A better understanding of polyamorous relationships will make it easier to consider this topic when forming the marriage equality legislature. Valerie White writes, “Poly people believe that the deep, mutual love that shines in a long-standing relationship is not necessarily destroyed by the energy that ignites in a new one” (White 18). Essentially, being polyamorous means having consensual intimate relationships with more than one partner without cheating between partners. Some people may consider this cheating or infidelity, but in polyamorous relationships, as long as there is honesty, it is considered normal and acceptable behavior. There is no “standard” polyamorous relationship, so each group is encouraged to communicate honestly and set boundaries with each other that work for their group. This is in an effort to give each partner in the relationship the opportunity to be as satisfied as possible and not in a strictly sexual way. In an interview with Nightline one woman summed up her polyamorous relationship by saying, “I'm looking for what helps me be the best human being I could be” (Boudrea). One of the coolest things about polyamorous relationships is that they can include just about anyone. Heterosexuals, homosexuals, young people, old people, people who really like sex,...... middle of paper......y day. As a country, it is important to be informed about the reality of these relationships before undertaking any type of legislation that may affect the people involved. America continues to be more open-minded and set the tone for how other countries handle human rights issues. If this nation could understand and accept the choices its citizens make about their relationships, it could set a precedent that would lead to a less oppressive world for all. Works Cited White, Valerie. “A humanist look at polyamory”. Humanist 64.6 (2004): Premier of Academic Research 19-20. Network. April 23, 2014Boudrea, Abbie. “Modern Sex in America.” Nightline (ABC) (2013): 1. Regional business news. Network. April 23, 2014.Cloud, John. "Henry & Mary & Janet &..." Times International (Canadian edition) 154.20 (1999): 62. Business Source Complete. Network. April 24 2014.