Marriage is not an obstacle to prevent one spouse from having another hidden love. Because those who date before becoming a victim of an arranged relationship are at a high risk of cheating. If the couple dated someone before getting married, they would still continue to date that person because there is no love in their married life. For those men in the culture who lower the value of women, they normally cheat on their wives. Even after the first marriage, those men continue to add a second and third wife. Although some countries create laws against multiple husbands or wives, a hidden relationship still exists. Cambodia is one of the countries that does not allow more than one husband or wife. There are still many men and women out there who have multiple couples. Those who disagree believe that arranged marriage lasts longer. It is true that arranged marriages could last longer, however, the spouse would not be able to experience the feeling of happiness. Marriage requires both parties to have common characteristics because they must combine two different lives into one. If one of them does not match another, how could we combine them into one piece? The couple should take time to learn from each other's personality and give them enough time to adopt each other