However, following your dreams and ambitions can lead to parental guilt and personal anguish. The young man in the photo walks away into the distance, but looks back. This is because he misses the comforts of home and the protective barrier of his parents; this led to his personal anguish and his parents' guilt. My older brother left for Edmonton to follow his dreams and ambitions of becoming a doctor. Yet he knew that following his dreams and ambitions would lead to his personal anguish, his parents' guilt, and his siblings' grief. The young man in the photo and my older brother are very close in that they are both stepping out of their comfort zones to pursue their dreams and ambitions. They also relate in how they both have/have rethought about returning home and abandoning their dreams and ambitions. I'm not sure what I aspire to be, but I know that at some point I will have to leave home to pursue those dreams and ambitions; I'm not ready to leave for mine